Well, it wasn't really gender discussion, it was just Kimmy complaining ;) I did have trouble figuring out how it should be worded. Maybe it was a bit forced. I think what Kimmy really wanted to say (I'm sure you know how characters take on lives of their own...) was something that implied that Scott wanted to be in charge because he's the man and she's the woman, but didn't say it outright, and I didn't think that was clear enough.